Dear Lu,
I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years. We lived together and I based my whole life around him. Now that we broke up, I'm not sure what I should do next. It's not easy being alone. Do you have any suggestions of how to start new?

Dear Starting Over,
Lets start by learning life’s most valuable lesson; you never base your whole life around anyone with the exception of you. I promise others will love you if you love yourself. Others will find you interesting if you make yourself interesting. Please start nothing new until you do these two things.

Lu

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