Dear Lu,

I am a proud business woman in the process of building a successful interior decorating company. I absolutely love what I do and others appreciate my work. But there is a downside to my life. I've been married to a man I absolutely love for 2 years who seems to be very jealous of my success. I believe he is trying to sabotage my business. The reason I feel this way is because when I get home from work, a lot of my pieces, samples and paperwork wind up missing! He'll move them around and sometimes I can never find my work! I believe he is throwing some of my work away. He even deleted a program off the computer that I needed for my business. I'm at the end of my rope and really don't know what to do next. Help!

Dear Proud Business Woman,
1. Do you have proof?
2. Have you tried talking to Him?
3. Is counseling an option “professional or church”?
4. What happens when its not your job but something else He's jealous of, a child for example.
5. Is He attempting to change?

After answering these five questions I have confidence you can answer this one on your own.

You know what to do,
Lu

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